[Sofia]

I’m currently a college student and I have a classmate who always joins me for meals during our break time at school. He also often invites me to watch his basketball games on weekends but that’s as far as it goes. He hasn’t directly said whether he likes me or not and it seems like we’re just normal friends. But among all my male classmates, he’s the only one who treats me this way. Sometimes he even walks me home, even though we live in different directions.
How will I know if he likes me? Should I be the one to directly ask him if he has feelings for me since he makes me feel special? Or should I just wait and see if he eventually confesses his feelings, if he really has any?

[James]

Don’t make the first move by asking him if he likes you, because traditionally it’s usually the guy who makes the first move, not the girl. Just observe if he continues making efforts to make you feel special and it’s okay to wait for the day when he finally confesses his feelings to you. Don’t think too far ahead yet. Just let yourselves get to know each other more and let him show you the efforts he’s willing to make to let you feel that he’s interested in you.

[Almina Micaella]

It’s not a good idea for you to be the one to ask. It’s better to wait for him to make the first move so you can really know if he truly likes you.

[Cessymay]

First of all, do you like him, or is that why you want to know if he likes you?

For me, it’s not really a good idea for you to directly ask him if he likes you, especially since you’re a girl. It’s usually better to wait for him to make the first move so you can see more clearly if he really has feelings for you.

If you do like him, you can also give him small signs that you like him too. Maybe he’s just nervous or shy, and he might gain the courage to confess if he feels some encouragement from you.

But if he still doesn’t make a move, then maybe he really just sees you as a friend and doesn’t have romantic feelings for you.

[Member]

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