[Brian]

I work at a coffee shop as a bartender. We have a regular customer named Elaine. Whenever she comes to the shop, she always looks for me and requests that I be the one to serve her drinks. Sometimes she even brings me food like pizza and burgers.
Because of that, my coworkers keep teasing me, asking why I haven’t tried courting her yet. But I’m not sure if she actually likes me or if she has just become close to me and simply wants to be friends.
I’m hesitant because I’m worried that if I pursue her and she doesn’t feel the same way, we might lose the closeness we already have.
How do I know if she really likes me?

[James]

It’s hard to take advantage of the signs a woman shows because sometimes that’s just how they are with people they consider close friends. It’s also hard to guess the answer to your question about whether she likes you because based on what you said, it does seem like there’s a chance she likes you too. Just the fact that she brings you food already shows effort and that can mean you’re special to her. Your friends are right, if you like her too, try courting her so you can finally know the answer to your question. If she says yes, then it means she likes you. But if she doesn’t, then she probably only sees you as a friend, and maybe that’s just her way of treating people she feels close to.

[Almina Micaella]

That’s why you court someone—to see if they will like you back. If you don’t try pursuing her, you’ll never know what she really feels. What if she actually likes you too?

And if she doesn’t like you, you can still find ways to make her like you—if you really care about her. You just need to be willing to take the risk.

[Cessymay]

Your coworkers are right—go ahead and try courting her. If you like her, someone else might get ahead of you, and you could end up regretting it later.

You’re a man, so be confident and take the lead. Invite her out on a date. Who knows, maybe she actually likes you too and is just waiting for you to make a move.

If you keep hesitating, she might start thinking her effort is wasted and that you’re not interested in her, which could make her feelings fade if she has any for you at all.

[Member]

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