A couple of things may be going on. First of all, men, in general, are visual. And many of them are interested in sexy images of women. That’s why the porn industry is so lucrative. Rather than fight it, consider what he likes, and see where you can adopt some of it in your own life — whether it’s in lingerie, attitude, setting the scene, etc. You can learn from what he’s doing, and use it to your own advantage. 😎
Second, don’t create a problem where there is none. Watching porn, when it doesn’t interfere with the rest of his life, can be a hobby of his you’re just not into. It doesn’t have to be a relationship deal breaker. So choose your battles.
Third, many men in his age range experiment with prescriptions that impact sexual physiology, like Viagra and it’s partner medications. He may be having a renaissance, sexually, and you’re seeing the results in the porn he’s watching and the sexual interest he’s not showing.
If you suspect a problem, look for behavioral changes as clues to what’s going on. But from what you wrote, it sounds like you’re just really looking for some insight…. I hope this helps. If you have more specific questions, feel free to ask.
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