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So I need some advice. I went out on a night out last night to our local pub and I met a new bar lady. I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone so breathtaking! I liked everything about her but I couldn’t really find very much out because the bar was really busy and she was rushing around. She did however smile as me allot and every time I’d go to the bar (I started buying my friends more drinks just so I could speak to her more!) she’d remember what beer I was drinking! good sign?

We then proceeded onto our local night club for the rest of the night. A little be later I saw the bar lady (and found out her name is sara) an spoke to her a little bit more. I’ve always been so rubbish at speaking to girls I like and especially in night clubs, so the conversation quickly ran dry. I told her I’d better get back to my friends and I’ll catch up with her a little later, I did this a couple of hours later but I’d had a little to much to drink. I told her that I kept buying drinks in the pub just so I could speak to her more and she seemed to respond well! I asked her if she’d like to go for a drink some time and she smiled and said we could go when she finished work sometime or in her break. The only problem is that I didn’t get her number (I was drunk and unwise!) so I have no way of getting hold of her! and she only works weekends so to see her again I’ll have to wait a week and I’m worried that by then she’ll have forgotten about me! I may pop in there during the week to see if she’s working!

So can you give me any advice on how to go about this? I’m really bad at talking to women and I’m worried I’m going to mess it up!

[AskApril Masini]

Closing the deal isn’t just about business. If you want to succeed, you have to learn how to close, and in this case, closing the deal means getting her number! This is a great reminder that when you meet someone you’re interested in dating, if you don’t close the deal and get her number, you’re at sea!

Next weekend, go to the bar, look for her and have another conversation. Practice small talk — you may think you’re not good at it, but you can get better at it if you practice! And ask her for her number next time, so you can call her and ask her out on a date. 😉

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