I have been talking with this guy for a year and a half and in the last few months he has been staying with me at my mom’s and today we went and looked at an apartment together that we are moving into on the first and we act like we’re a couple share our money and everything but every time I say anything about us being official (boyfriend and girlfriend) he always ask why do we need a title when were happy now so my question is how do I explain how much different it is to not actually be official? Him not making it official is starting to make me feel like I’m not good enough and he don’t understand why and I don’t know how to explain it to him. Please help and thank you for listening.