[Anonymous]

my boyfriend and i have been together going on two years he was a close friend over a year before we got together i am a single mom of a six year old boy i am currently a stripper and a waitress to care 4 baby my bf knew my job and no problem i found a video of a threesome while we together and its never stopped he has been calling girls on craigslist while i am at work he sees nothing wrong with him doing it but not me and no matter what i always forgive him and it happens again why is it so hard 2 leave him help please what should i do.

[Ask April Masini]

I know it’s hard to leave him, but leaving him is the right thing to do. Clearly you don’t want him calling girls from Craigslist while you’re at work, and clearly he’s going to continue to do so. This is a relationship incompatibility. It’s not going to get better by you taking him back over and over and sending him the message that you don’t like it, but you’ll live with it.

Until you value yourself in a relationship, and feel that you’re worth his being respectful and monogamous, you’re not going to get Mr. Right.

Do the hard work for the sake of your child who deserves his mom to be respected and valued by a man, and break up with this guy.

I hope that helps. I know it’s not easy and you’d prefer an easy fix, but it will be worth it to you and your son.

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