We’ve bn dating for 6mnths. V r in love and hope to marry in the coming year. V had not begun dating yet when he told me a drawback of his that he sometimes cuts himself off emotionally from everyone around him (I suppose I chose 2 not pay attention because of falling in love phase)
But he has come to that point because of family work and personal issues that he has cut himself off COMPLETELY
Now, let me tell u a bit about his teenage years. He moved to the states for his education, where he was caught up in some legal issues (he was 17). He could have been imprisoned for over 50 years and at this point his family abandoned him completely. Which meant he had to pay for his tuition fee, his lodging food plus deal with what i mentioned all by himself at just 17. This left a big mark on him and he says the only way that he could survive back then was to cut himself off emotionally from everything and everyone (he could not deal with emotions and everything else that was going on at the same time)
Hes been off since 26th June, he told me once he gets almost physically disabled during this time and He’s ready to go into therapy for our relationship as well
during the past week and a half ive begun 2 feel it is almost impossible 2 have a family with him I feel if v have kids together.I feel I will never get enough time with him and I’ll end up spending weeks and months all alone just waiting for him to come back
Please help me he’s a great guy! I’m not sure if I should stay of leave
I want to be certain before he comes back to me I can’t live with the indecisiveness
