Hi
I was wondering if someone could, give my a little guidance.
Just under 2 years ago I met this girl at work & after a few weeks I started to notice her staring, giving me back glances & looks across the room. Even while she was speaking to others or on the phone.
I started speaking to her & we got on really well, I’ve never met someone with whom we share so many parallel’s (interests, hobbies, personality, outlook on life)
I have developed very strong feelings for her & I asked her out last year for a quick drink but she told me she was in already in a relationship, so I left it at that for 6-7 months.
During that time I backed off to give her some space but we still exchanged looks, stares across the room, only she seemed to become more intense. Did I scare her?
I’ve found out last week that she has since entered another relationship that has so far lasted 5 months with someone twice her age that seems to bear no relation to the type of person she is or the life she leads.
Is this a serious long lasting relationship ?
A bit of fun ?
Is it revenge on her pervious boyfriend?
I don’t know whether there was a cross over point in which she finished her last relationship & started her new one. Either way for all this time I was still in the same office as her & she was still giving me these really intense stares & looks from across the room.
I have told her how I’ve felt about her since & she even responded to that in a non – committal way to her current relationship. ‘Sorry I don’t really think it would be a good idea at the moment’
I think at least, that she fancies me but I don’t know anything else.
Could she be scared of the working relationship?
Just not have feelings for me?
Or never believed I felt for her in this way & she’s just trying to reason this at the moment?
Maybe she could see that I had some similarities to her previous relationship & wanted something different?
I’ve never had feelings like this for anyone
What do I do from here?
Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks
David
