[Anonymous]

[b][i]ok here is the deal i have known this girl sence i was 10 yrs old we both are 32 now i know im old to be posting this but i am a guy that never has been able to get a gf all i get is i just want to be friends lol ok here it goes
well i have known here sence we were ten we kinda lost track of each other for a few yrs not by choice on my part but she ended up getting married and had 2 kids in the time we were apart she ended up getting a devorce and doing a lil jail time ” because of him” he set her up on a drug charge to get the heat off of him but sence she got out of jail and is now living back at home with her two kids 7 and 10 that i love to death and wish they were mine i have been like a father to them for over 2 yrs now we have become compleatly best friends and are together 5 out of 7 days a week atleast 12 hrs a day for the last 2 yrs i want to move forward into a relashonship but all i get is the “we are just friends” song and dance and i dont know what to do i do everything for them in my power i love all three of them todeath but it is a one way street i know her older kid cares about me the youngest one loves me but everytime she shows a lil affection for me mommy yells at her but i love mommy the most and i dont know what to do anymore everyone tells her we should be together and all that stuff and she just shrugs it off like she dont care and i don’t know why i mean i will rub her back and she don’t pull away but only time she will hug me kiss me or say i love you too is when she is compleatly plasterd but i just don’t know what to do anymore i know i am rambling on but any advice would be apreciated thanks ~Fuzzy~ [/i][/b]

[Ask April Masini]

She isn’t interested in you. You’re sabotaging yourself by staying with someone who’s not going to be your girlfriend or your wife. Respect her feelings and respect yourself, and move on.

If a woman tells you she just wants to be friends, then move on and find a woman who wants you to be more than her friend. By staying with her for 2 years and spending all your time with her and her children, you’re keeping yourself from finding Ms. Right. If you really want a girlfriend who loves you the same way you love her, then get out there and find her, and if she gives you the just friends line, then exit — quickly! Don’t waste your time.

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