[suetully]

I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months we got close real quick i am 45 he 51 both have been really hurt in past relationships. I would stay at his home on weekends now its been 6 weeks since i have been home. I love him very much and told him. he said dont say that it ruins everything. then a day later he said he loved me he said i dont like that word but u are important to me and i care alot about u. Every time i say i need to go home he gets upset and says things like you had enough you hate me or see ya whenever i hate u. I said this morning i need to go home i am frustrated living out of bags for 6 weeks he said i will get u a dresser. i said i still need to go home he said i hate u. He has his kids 2 weekends a month and on tuesdays he will use them to get me to stay saying they will starve or they want u here. I need you here. to help with them. he will not tell me his feelings every now and then he will hug me so tight and doesnt want to let go or i catch him staring at me. I just dont know if i am being used and should i walk away.

[Drstyle]

walk away, he sounds crazy!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

After six months, both people usually decide if they want to continue dating each other or not. It sounds like you’re not happy spending weekends in his home, but you won’t go back to your place either. You’re putting yourself in a no win situation that’s easily remedied. I’m not sure why you don’t go to your house on the weekends, and see if he cares about you enough to take you out and make things special for you. If a man wants you, he’ll pursue you. If you throw yourself at him, which is what you’re doing by staying at his house every weekend, he doesn’t have the opportunity to show you how he feels.

You should read THink & Date Like A Man, a book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right, so you have a better handle on dating basics and don’t find yourself playing the victim. 😕 Here’s the link for the book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. 😀

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