Hello all!
Some of you may not even bother to answer, as my issue is kinda kink and strange, but I figured I’d try to get a woman’s opinion anyway.
My current GF is not the most “sexually” stimulating person. She rarely ever makes the first move or even suggests that she is horny or wants to have sex, therefore, I always feel like I am kinda forcing it on her whenever we do. The sex is great when it happens, and it seems that I am most definitely satisfying her (as long as she’s not faking), so I’m in the clear on that as far as I know. But the problem is, I want her to want it as much as I do, and maybe I would like her to show some effort into making the magic happen, rather than me always initiating the first move and getting her worked up. With all this being said, we do not have sex on a steady basis, but rather we can go weeks and weeks without it, yet she never seems worried or bothered by that. This has caused me to think stupidly and do stupid things to try and makeup for the passion that seems to be missing here.
So, now onto my issue! As of late, I have gotten urges to wear my GF panties/thongs while she is not home. I will put a pair on and basically leave it on until right before she gets home, then I will quickly change and put it back in her drawer. It just gives me a weird feeling, almost like an intimate feeling that I’m wearing her panties without her knowing, to make up for her not really showing an sexual foreplay. I know most women will probably frown upon this, but unfortunately, I am having a hard time fighting the urge to do this.
Do any of you think that I should inform my GF of my fetish? Or should I just keep it my secret to avoid any possible issues?
Thx in advance!