Recently my Ex Boyfriend and I just started rekindling as of two weeks ago. We are slowly working on rebuilding a new relationship and I saw him for the first time last in in several mths.
While I am happy at this stage in my life and the way things are going with the both my sister, whom is always caused trouble in my past relationships recently disclosed some heart breaking news to me today. Also, she immediately told me this after the fact, she thought I was not going to attend my niece’s birthday party. She became angry saying.. ‘ Your boyfriend mths ago, told me that if I ever get rid of my boyfriend that I should come to him.’
Now, FYI: She has proclaimed in the past that men in my past wanted her and or came onto her. I even asked her..’ If he said this months ago, why are you just now telling me esp. knowing we are rebuilding our relationship?”
Plus, she claimed that my Ex husband wanted her mths ago saying, he came onto her & her boyfriend immediately confronted him over the phone. Which is her boyfriend didn’t confront my ex boyfriend at all even though he has my ex’s number. Makes me wonder.
How should I handle a situation such as this: 1.) Ignore it, taking it with a grain of salt but, keeping my guard up? 2.) Direct approach to my Ex? 3.) Approach my ex in third person?
Agh, while I wasn’t there to confirm what was said, I also don’t trust neither one of them at this time.
