[Naylie]

I recently got back with my ex so now the problem is that he is always online on the other chatroom which is whatsapp and stays up till late. But with me he would ignore my messages on blackberry messenger until he feels like saying something. He always calls when he is drunk and tells me he knows where home is and he loves me, sometimes when he is sober. Thing is I’m always telling myself he isn’t cheating but that idea is stuck that he is. Question is would you think he is cheating? 😕

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Give me a little more information first, and then I’ll give you my advice! 😀

How old are you both?
How long did you date before you broke up?
Did you live together during that time? If so, for how long?
Why did you break up?
Why did you get back together?
And how long has it been since you got back together?

Thanks!!

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[Naylie]

Lol we both in our early 20s, we dated for a couple of months, we broke up this year February got back together late May, i understand that it’s still early 😆 . We got back together because We both missed each other. Thing is he was excited that he saw me across the the room and that i came to support him. He stared at me in a way that it’s indescribable and he didn’t believe i was there everybody kept asking questions on what am i to him? He kept letting his friends and family that I’m there so they interrogated me which was adorable. Couple of days later he told me that his cousin told him he was an ass for leaving me. The break up was that i was persistent on getting time with him because i felt we were drifting apart. We love each other dearly so weird neh. And we both confessed to one another that we still love each other over the phone. So yah. 😆 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Thanks for the information. 🙂

[quote]Question is would you think he is cheating?[/quote]

So, he’s not cheating — but he’s definitely interested in dating other women. You have to be realistic about the relationship. You dated for a few months, then broke up. Three months later, you got back together — but it’s only been a couple of weeks at most, and he’s already looking to meet other women online.

This isn’t someone who’s all that into you — in spite of what you would like it to be. 😳 He’d have to be really committed to you to be cheating on you, and it doesn’t sound like he is. It sounds like you’re looking at this relationship as more serious than he is. If you’re realistic about this, you won’t get hurt. You may be disappointed, but you can make smart choices.

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