Here’s how you get your guy: Understand that men love to chase women. It’s an integral part of who they are. They love to win, and in order to win, there has to be a challenge and a chase involved. That’s where you come in! 😉
If you don’t give your guy something to chase, he’s not going to feel like he’s won something. Well, maybe the booby prize, but that’s not going to get you anywhere. So, if you think your guy may be into you just for the hot kisses, and not for the relationship you’re looking for, then don’t be so available. If you make it harder for him to be with you, he’s going to value you and the time he gets with you a lot more than he has been.
To do this, flirt with him when you see him, so that he continues to be interested in you, [i]but[/i] make it a little harder for him to get you, than you have been. I know this is going to be a little tough on you because you want a commitment from this guy so much, but trust me. The only way you’re going to find out if he really wants you in the way that you want him is to change your strategy and be more of a valuable commodity (and that means not being so available, and when you are, being your best girlfriend self).
If he doesn’t chase you, then he’s not that into you. If he does, then you’re in a great position to see if he’s the guy YOU want.
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Let me know how things go!
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