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Is he interested in me?

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    Me and my friend from highschool recently rekindled our friendship. While we were in the same group of friends in high school we were on a bit of opposite ends in our friend group. This past summer (I’m a graduating senior in college) he drove from Long Island to my house in Phili for a friends birthday. We had a good time together but having recently broken up w my boyfriend of 10 months I didn’t think much of it other than Sam got cute. Around Thanksgiving time I invited him to dinner in NY with some of our other high school friends and we had a great time. Under mostly my initiation, we’ve been texting or ichatting almost everyday. He goes to school in New York while I’m in Florida so we haven’t really hung out other than a few times when I was home in January. Ill be in NY starting in September. While I mostly initiate (although he does occasionally), we talk all day and if the conversation ended hell always ask me how my day is or something to start a new conversation. I am nervous I am too forward. Half my friends tell me Sams oblivious to these things while others say I should give it a shot. He’s never been in a relationship before and he’s known to get stuck with girl best friends. I don’t want to get stuck in that and I keep on hoping I’m different. He will be flirty in texts and seems to want to hang out with me and talk to me. I was in a really bad relationship and don’t really want drama or complexity. He’s a really amazing guy though. One that makes me laugh, helps me and shares my values. Oh and did I mention he’s very good looking and beyond brilliant. I’m scared of getting hurt again so I keep pulling away but I don’t want to lose out on a wonderful guy because I’m scared of rejection. What do you recommend I do?

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    He may be wonderful and brilliant and all those good things — but if he isn’t ready for a relationship, you can’t twist his arm into wanting one. That said, if you’re always doing the leading, you’ll never give him a chance to miss you and ask you out. So you need to back off, and when he does contact you, turn up the charm. If he doesn’t contact you, you’ll know he’s not interested, but if you continue doing what you’re doing you’re surely going to remain in the friend zone.

    I hope that helps! Please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter. 😀

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