[rochs]

I have this problem, I have been out of the dating scene for a while and am not familiar with reading the signals if a guy is interested. I have a dilema, there is a guy at my work who works night shift and finishes at 7 when i start at 7.30 and he makes an excuse to hang around till i get there to chat supposedly about work issues. Then we went to a work function and he was sitting by an attractive girl, and looked up and gave me a smile when i arrived, and when the seat beside me had vacated he came and sat beside me. Then he enquired to when i was going home and waited till i was ready to make his move to go to. When we got down to the taxis i said i was going to take one, and he looked at me disappointed and said ‘come on walk down to the cars with me, if you get tired i will carry you’. Then we talked all the way back which was a 20min walk, he then walked me all the way to my car, which i stupidly rushed to getting out my keys, and leaving in a hurry. now i am unsure of whether he was just being polite or is interested. and if he is how do i do something about it, with out being to forward incase i am wrong so i dont ruin our working relationship.help!

[Ask April Masini]

He likes you! He’s not just being nice — he’s showing genuine romantic interest. Now, since you’re interested, too, you need to give him something to chase! 😉 The way you do this is by flirting. Men love it when you flirt with them, and give them something to go after. It’s in their nature to want to win, and if you give him something [i]to[/i] win (you!), he’s going to feel great whenever he’s around you.

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[rochs]

So i had work today and new this workmate was going to be on when I started my shift. When I arrived he was busy with our boss, and didnt really acknowledge me. I briefly said hello on passing them. He still did not really take much notice. After clocking in I started to get down to work, and then had to go to move my car, and he was trying to get someone else to move theirs, then when he was looking all stressed and uptight, he looked over and gave me a big smile.
And just as I thought he was going to clock out and leave and i wouldnt have a chance to chat to him, he came after me with some “information” for work he thought I might need, even though I have never seen it before. He had approached me with this information away from where the boss was so I had a chance to talk to him. He looked like he was going to take off for a minute,then i said ,’are you having a good morning,?’and he replied “it has been hell for the last 3days”.
I chatted for him for a couple of minutes, and then apologised for taking off the night he walked me back to my car, he said ‘yea you did rush of, but its okay”.
He was smiling and looked much more relaxed while we were talking. And i said, ‘see you in the morning’, and he smiled and replied ‘yea see you then, we should be able to talk then’.
So I am still confused really to whether he is interested or not,.

[Ask April Masini]

Did you read my last post with advice? 😕 It sure seems like you skipped it altogether, or else you’re so excited, agitated and nervous about this guy, that you’re not focusing.

Read my post. Slow down. And let me know what you did, after I first wrote you — not what he did.

Look forward to hearing your news. 🙂

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