"April Masini answers questions no one else can and tells you the truth that no one else will."
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and tells you the truth that no one else will."

Is he really intressted in me?

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    gthreeamigos
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    I have been seeing this man for six months now we usually just hang around his house on Saturday night and watch movies, He has been married twice before and both he was hurt badly! He told me wants to take things slow and tells me he loves me We have went out a couple of times to dinner or to a pub, he has never bought me anything other than a candle for Christmas! He is very shy! I was married to my husband for38 years and it ended up he cheated on me and we divorced! I’m wondering if new man is afraid of investing too much time and money on me and that ill hurt him also?

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    AskApril Masini
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    Good questions. 😉

    Your boyfriend of six months isn’t really into the relationship as much as he’s into things being easy for himself. When a guy really likes you and wants you to be his girlfriend, and is excited about a future together, he’s going to treat you like a girlfriend! He’s going to take you out, try to please you, show you off to his friends and make you feel special. And your part in all this is to be that person who he wants to treat this way! 😎 It sounds like he’s just looking for company so he doesn’t have to be lonely, and his need to take care of himself is greater than his need to take care of you. Try not to be complicit in this dynamic and you’ll feel better about yourself. 😉

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    gthreeamigos
    Member #373,270

    thank you! makes sense!

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    AskApril Masini
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    You’re very welcome.

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