[love2love07]

Me and my ex have been split up a week now and he is acting as if he doesnt care. He hasnt text or called barely and I am 12 wks pregnant with his child. He has been going out and doing things I cant do maybe because he knows I cant at moment? He is driving my car around taking advantage of knowing I am pregnant. We have been together a year and each have a daughter of our own that have grown close as sisters so this makes this so hard. I am the one who broke it off because of the personal stress in my life and all the fighting we have been doing because of it and his issues. but i love him and did not expect this reaction. I am alone and feel abandoned and i do not like being the weak one practically begging him to give us another shot? is he reallky over me? he tells me to move on and the only way we could ever be together again is if i get over him.. i dont want that because once i do get over him i will be over him. i love him and i know he loved me.. our sex life is amazing and even after a year he always says its the best hes ever had and i dont think he is trying to get with other girls but i am so confused if this is a front or what is going on? help?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re 12 weeks pregnant and YOU broke up with your boyfriend of one year. So, remember: You’re not abandoned. You made the decision, you said, because of your personal stress, his issues and fighting. Now, you want him back — but what happened to all the reasons for the break up? 😮 If they were real reasons, you’ll probably get back together and break up again unless they’re resolved or at least addressed and worked on. But if you were just being manipulative, and thought that breaking up with him would get a particular reaction, then you calculated your risk, took your shot, and didn’t get what you wanted. 😳 Decide which of those reasons is the one you broke up with him for.

Once you know that, then you can make a better decision about what to do next. 😉

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