Got it! Thank you. ๐
Your boyfriend is dating another woman, from what you’re writing, and I don’t recommend you move in with him because of that. Men and women aren’t friends — there’s always more interest and deeper feelings with at least one of the two people, at any one time or another, and that creates a dishonesty that isn’t part of a friendship. At his age, a female friend who has regular sleep over dates at his house, and hosts them for him at hers, is not a friend. She’s a date or a girlfriend. He’ll probably try to convince you otherwise, and it’s up to you to decide how you want to live YOUR life. ๐ In other words, don’t tell him what to do or give him an ultimatum — those don’t work. Instead, my advice is to co-parent with him because you have a three year old together, but don’t count on him as anything other than a co-parent because he’s seeing this other woman in the way that he is. Instead, move on with your own life, knowing who he is. If he really cares about you, when he sees you’re moving on, he can try and win you back. If part of his trying to win you back involves his monogamy, then you might want to consider the relationship with a future. Otherwise, don’t sell yourself a bill of goods. I know you don’t believe him deep down because you wrote and asked me a question you already knew the answer to. ๐ Sometimes people want me to confirm what they already know, and I’m happy to do that for you.
I hope that helps. ๐
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