[jenlee]

so now that my 3 wk relationship is gone. i just realized that my secret crush that ive had since high school, just became single as well. 😀 he also was just in a very short relationship. even in high school i never confessed to liking him. but now that both of us r free. i was wondering if it would be ok to tell him my feelings? or is it true when they say if a guy wants to be with u, they will find a way? i dont want to make an ass out of my self, or get rejected. but i also dont want a perfectly good chance to pass me by. from what i can tell from him it seems as if we would really hit it off. plus he is looking for a committed relationship as well. we occasionally chat online and so far share the same interest. and agree on a lot of topics. hhhmm??? should i say something? or just sit back and wait to see if he says anything? 😕

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Don’t tell him out and out how you feel — it puts a guy in a bad situation because it takes away that feeling that guys love so much: chasing a woman and winning her over. So don’t make it hard for him to feel good about you by telling him point blank that you like him. 🙁 Instead, flirt with him and dial up that flirting. 😎 Make him feel like when the two of you are together, he’s the most important young man in the room to you. When he feels great around you, he’s going to want to be around you more, and that’s when he’s going to ask you out on a date. 🙂

I hope that helps!

[mae4ever]

Never ever do that . It’s not a good idea.Let him do the first move.Just flirt with him! 😀 hehe..

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Two thumbs up for the advice from mae4ever! 😆

[jenlee]

lol, ok i will sit back and flirt just a little. thank u both very much. i really do enjoy this website. so thank u for making it, and helping us with our problems. i plan to tell a lot of people about this website. 😀

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

What a nice thing to say! I’m so glad you’re going to spread the word about this website. The more, the merrier! 😀

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