[Sorrytail]

We don’t really go out she has a boyfriend but she’s always going on about splitting up with him, we’ve flirted, hung out the usual but when we were finally getting close, I messed up we went to a party and I ended up getting extremely drunk and creeped her out now she won’t talk to me all she’s said is she doesn’t know what she wants anymore and that she need time away from me for a while. What does this mean? What should I do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

She’s got a boyfriend, and you are trying to compete for her. That’s fine! But… I don’t know what you did that creeped her out, but whatever it was, she’s needing some space. Wait a while and ask her out on a date. Invite her to have dinner. If she’s really, truly committed to this other guy, then hang back and be successful. Women love successful guys and if she sees you doing well at work, with other women, in the community, etc. — you’ll be more interesting to her and maybe even more attractive. Sometimes playing it cool and playing the field is the best way to get a woman’s attention. 😎

[Sofia]

When someone says they need time, it means NO. Asking them repeatedly will make you seem creepy
And by the way, she is still committed. A girl who flirts with someone else behind her partner’s back is looking for attention.
Don’t fully trust her promises of ‘splitting up’ until she is actually single.
Ask April is right here; You should focus on becoming successful in your own life, whether it’s your career, your involvement in the community, or even by dating other women. But the biggest success is to first admit your mistake and move on.

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