[Anonymous]

Theres a guy I’ve known for about a year and we liked each other(more than friends). we would text each other all the time and stuff but as time went on it started to get awkward between us. For example…somedays he would come up to me and initiate conversation, then the next day it seemed like he would try to avoid me or he’d be around me and not even say anything, so i would just get mixed signals. He went away to college and after that we didnt talk anymore. he came back for awhile and when i first saw him he came up to me all friendly like nothing was ever weird between us. he also would always kinda glance at me but not talk to me or anything.

I think what made it weird beteen us was he would say nice things to me and be affectionate, but i wasnt always like that with him. I’m pretty shy so when he would say nice things and stuff to me or when he’d even come around me, I’d get all nervous and not know what to say…so maybe that made him think I didnt like him?

After it got awkward and before he left for college, he would kinda be a jerk towards me. What I’m really curious about is does it mean something when he looks over at me and why would he act like nothing was weird between us and act nice (this is also how he acted when he came back form college)

[April Masini, your AskApril]

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