Hello April. Thanks for the great job you re doing. Pls I need your honest opinion on this.
I jst started seeing him November last year. He’s funny, nice, sweet and caring. A friend paired us up, that he need a girl to get married to. We hit it off well and he’s been showing seriousness. He has introduced me to his parent and siblings and wants me to meet his entire extended family. Pls note, I and him have not kissed or had sex. Well, some days ago he told me somtin happened to him 3 yrs ago and he hated girls. that he caught his gf sleeping wt his close cousin. And blc of that, he does only flings wt girls, But that, he has gotten over the hate now. So, today I was going through his chat and saw a conversation in december, blw him and a guy, asking the guy to arrange another guy, for him to sex..I went to another chat and I saw another conversation, he was telling a guy that he luv his lips and d*ck.. I couldn’t believe it. I confronted him about it, then he admitted he started sleeping with guys 3 yrs ago, said that was the time he hated girls and jst wanted to see what its like to sex a guy. Since then, he’s been doing it once in a while. Knelt down and started crying, swearing with his life and his family that he planed to stop with the new year, that he has never opened up to anyone about this..neither his family or friends. Now m so shocked. From what I ve noticed and found out about him I knw he’s attracted to girls and can have sex wt girls..cos he has exes and some of them dated him for yrs and are still trying to come back. so its like he is bisexual. He said he can stop sleeping with guys cos he wasn’t born wt it, its a habit he jst picked up. I dnt knw if to call it off. I feel bad having to dump him after he has opened up to me..but m really scared..dating and marrying a guy who could sleep wt guys. Pls I need ur opinion on this. Thanks alot
