[caliboy22]

Hi April,

I need your advice. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost 4 years and living with her for 1. We just recently talked about our future and a discussion about kids ensued. I want kids, she doesn’t. I have made it certain that if we do not have kids this will not work. I think my sternness on the situation influenced her response. She has told me that she doesn’t necessarily want kids but if thats what it will take to be with me, she will have my kids.

We are not planning to have kids anytime soon. However, I feel that if she was to have my kids down the road it would lead to resentment.

I could really use your insight please!

Thank you very much!

caliboy

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

I would love to answer your question — but first…. since you’ve already posted on this site, can you please cut, paste and re-post this question as a “reply” to the first post you started here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/forums2/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=244813&p=269138#p269138[/url]. That way, everyone who wants to read and respond to your situation, can see your whole history in one place. I’ll look out for your re-post and answer you there as soon as it’s up!

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