I am 18 and so is my girlfriend, we’ve been dating for around 10 months. She’s amazing everything always is good. One day we got in a stupid argument over a disagreement and I broke up with her. She blows up my phone. When I get angry I get stubborn, so this was going for 2 weeks. At first she blew up my phone for multiple days which made me not want to talk to her more, even when I wanted to. Then she stopped for a couple days but then she starts again. So this time I can’t bare not talking to her and doing stuff without her so I thought it would be nice to get her flowers and talk. I literally pass by all the time but, I see someones truck there. I go and knock on the door and the parents won’t let me in (they ALWAYS) let me in. So even though I’m very upset I leave, this time I call her and she yells at me saying she wants nothing to do with me. An hour or two later she’s begging again, I ask about him and she says “he’s just a friend.” I take her back, for a week I question her about this boy and she says him and her did nothing. One day I guess I annoyed her so much that she spills out the truth, they tried twice, the first time didn’t work because “condom was too dry” second time they did it but didn’t finish because “it didn’t feel right to do.” Anyway I’m still with her, I can’t get this out of my head. It’s killing me everyday, I can’t do anything without thinking about it. Do leave her? or do I need to man up because it happened when we broke up?
