Hi. Im moving away for school, and its about a 18 hr drive away from my parents. Im getting my own apartment and everything while im at school. My bf and i are thinking we will need to break up due to me moving and he wont be able to find work in his area out there. We were going to try to do the long distance thing but im going to be out there for at least 2 years. And in the end… that is a pretty long time. Plus I don’t drive so I wouldn’t have any time or way to go back there and he don’t drive either.
He just found out today that there is a job out there he can transfer to. I am 22 and he is 23. We were talking about maybe if he went out there we could get a apartment together. We have been going out for 2 and a half years. He lives with a roommate right now and I still live with my parents cause I have been going to school for the past year. Would it be smart to move in together?
I know it will be hard in the start and i’m willing to try this, so is he. My school is only part time too, so its not like if we were living together it would distract me too much. And i have a job that i will transfer to.
And plus if anything happens i have a uncle who lives about 2 hours away, and he has some friends out there.
To me this seems like the right thing to do. I know that there are other people out there and i can find someone else and all that, but i don’t really want to. He has been there for me no matter what, and I can see that maybe we could get married… ( or at least I like to hope)
Im just looking for a second opinion, making sure that just cause im going out with him now, im not clouding my own judgment.
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