I recently found out that my boyfriend has been seeing someone else for the past 8 months. I confronted him about it and he promised me that he’d end things. He later assured me that he has ended things with the other woman but I felt unsettled by the entire thing so I took it upon myself to find out if he was telling the truth. I asked the lady in question if they were seeing each other only to find out that they are. I showed him my conversations with her and all he had to say was ” I am sure you do not want anything to do with me now that you know everything “. I felt hurt and disrespected by him so I tried ending things but he kept saying that I shouldn’t give up on us and that he doesn’t want to lose me.
The last time I spoke to him he said I should focus on my exams and that we’ll sort things out after that. He hasn’t made effort to church on how I am or just Marley texting . He keeps saying he cares but I have doubts. He has been silent and distant. I also keep wondering if he’s playing the same caring cards on the other lady since she also found out about me.
What should I do? is this the end of us or what? I really love the guy but he seems effortless .
