You have to understand that dating is a different dynamic than other relationships. You may not think you’re doing anything wrong….. but clearly, you’re not getting what you want, so you are doing something wrong that is preventing you from the outcome you’re hoping for. In other words, you have to make some changes if you want a different outcome.
Understanding what women want — even young, teenage women — is important. I know you think you’re doing everything right, but there are many women who don’t want “a nice guy” and I’ve written to a lot of men about how nice guys finish last. You’re going to have to wrap your head around this concept because it’s a dating dynamic that doesn’t necessarily follow other parts of your life.
My advice is that you change up your behavior. Stop coming on so strong. Don’t be so available. Focus more on yourself. Women love men who are confident — and if you’re invested entirely in her happiness, you’re not focusing on yourself and you’re probably worried that you’re coming through for her. The worry isn’t attractive.
Obviously, from what you’ve written, you know how to GET the girl. Now, you have to focus on keeping her. Try what I suggested, and let me know how things go.
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