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    TheGirlWhoWonders
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    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and living together for a little over a year and a half. He started taking a class and afterwards everyone has been getting together in a small study group a couple times a week. Well this has going on for about 2 1/2 months and I never been worried or threatened. Lately, and I base this solely on women’s intuition and our computer history, which has a bunch of views of this one girl in the groups facebook pictures almost daily, lately I have been getting a weird feeling that he is developing feelings for her. Yesterday afternoon he was glued to his cell phone, and was getting short with me when I asked him to give it a rest. I had such a knot in my stomach last night that I went through his cell phone when I came home from work. I know I know, all time low but I was scared. He has never given me reason to suspect him of cheating and I have never had these gut feelings with him before so I did it and I found the conversations between him and the girl. Extremely Flirtatious! Nothing where it proved infidelity but defiantly all conversations that he initiated and were questionable of his intentions. I don’t know how to go about finding out the truth without coming off insecure or jealous. Please help. He is my best friend and I would be devastated if I lost him.

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    I think you already know that he’s interested in this other woman — the question you want to know is: How interested is he? 😳

    I want to steer you back on track, though. Think about why men cheat — they want to feel a certain way, and if he doesn’t feel valued and incredible in his own relationship with you, he’s going to look elsewhere for this feeling. She’s obviously making him feel a way that he likes, and rather than berate him for looking elsewhere, my advice is you become more alluring! 😎 Be the woman who wins him over — rather than the one who tells him what he can and cannot do.

    Let me know if that helps.

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