[heavenbarp]

I have been on an online dating for 2 years now. He always promise me that he will visit me in my country but he never came. His reason was he is too busy with work because he is a pilot. We rarely chat maybe 2x a week , because he is busy with work and sometimes no net connection when he travel. Just a simple phone call that he promised he cant do. I always wait for his call when he promise he will call but he did not. When we are chatting and sending message on phone he said he loves me and wont hurt me. When i called him up, we talked for few minutes, i said i love you but he did not answer. After the conversation i message him in his phone and ask why he did not reply when i said i love you, he said he was with his assistant . I ask him if he just fooling me. He said he is not fooling me. He told me i should not think negatively. How will i know that he is sincere.I understand his work that he is busy but why cant he do something What will i do? Please help me

[heavenbarp]

Dear April,
I just want to add what he just replied to me ” you always sad and think negative, u think about yourself only because u are free, and free brain just evil home thats why you think negative. Im here to do work, not enjoy here. Before 3 months me not go home do work just work but you only want call and text. Me not a free person have work so if you dont want to wait in the future so you are free”…that is what he said to me because i was asking why he did not call as what he promised, i told him he should not tell me that he will call so i will not wait for his call…..i really am confused, what will i do to him, he is too busy with work, but i love him. pls help me

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re wasting your time with someone who isn’t interested in you. 😮 He isn’t sincere. 🙁 If he was, he’d actually take you out on a date. Instead, you’ve allowed yourself to be a pawn in a two year relationship where you’ve never met once! 😯 He’s not seeing you because he doesn’t want to. If you don’t believe me, I can’t help you. 😳

Buy and read my book for women called Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you understand how to find, get and keep Mr. Right. If you meet a man and he doesn’t ask you out on a date in four weeks from meeting him, move on.

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