[lau1982]

Hi April

I have been seeing my boyfriend for near enough 7 weeks now and things seem to be going good apart from 1 thing. He was seeing a girl in the Summer who works besides us (we met at work) she had a boyfriend the whole time they were seeing eachother, she would not leave this boyfriend and eventually things fizzled out. They are still good friends though, my boyfriend says she is like a sister to him.
The thing bothering me is that their closeness does not seem natural to me, i know i should not say anything to him because i dont want him to feel like they cant be friends but i am a bit bothered by this! i also dont know if its a good idea to bring this up to him as i dont want to sound all clingy and needy. He said he has been after me long before him and her got together (i was just getting out of a relationship when we met so did not want to start anything up at that point.) I really dont know what to think or if i should risk things by saying anything to him. Please help me.

Lauren xx

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How old are the three of you?

[lau1982]

Him and myself are 29 and she is 20

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Thank you for the extra information! 🙂 Lots of women in your situation try and control it by putting limits on the man. BIG mistake. Sometimes the more energy you give a problem, the more legitimate the problem becomes. In other words, the more you focus on this other woman, the more she becomes a part of your relationship with your guy. So….. my advice is to be even more enticing and fabulous than you already are 😎 so that he loses interest in her. 😉

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