Sooo….here I go….I have been with let’s call him R for the last 8 months. We live about a couple hours away. Met online. In the beginning of our relationship I would go see him a few times a month. He has no car. When I met him he was going thru a really rough time….financially. so I helped him…..alot. slowly I began feeling used and saw him less and less….it’s been 5 months since I have seen him. I have used every excuse….I stopped taking care of him also….I expressed how he was changing and he said it was because he was depressed due to his situations in life. Through out the 8 months him and I have fought alot. I am a very jealous and suspicious person. So I looked on social media and found things I didn’t like…he changed those things….however only thing he hasn’t changes is the status update to “relationship” he says he doesn’t want everyone in our business….anyways….that was a kind of recap….here is my dilemma right now…..4 days ago he received a unexpected check….not sure of amount but all I know is he called me and told me if there was any way he can help me because I have done so much for him….as the humble person I am I said no that the gesture was enough….I fell back in love with him….it really was enough. Since he received that money I’m guessing around 2 to 4k since it was financial aid….he only has been texting me…hasn’t called….texts all day….today I told him I felt something was off….he told me to call…..I did. Soon as I heard his voice I wanted to hang up….I told him that. Before he would never allow me to hang up mad…or unresolved…he would call and call and text and texy….but he didn’t fight….he just said he was hurt. Is this all in my head??? Does this seem wrong to u??? What do I do????
