[Anonymous]

I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year now. We have not been intimate since Valentines Day. I try to touch her or start to kiss her and she brushes me off. Lately she has been letting her 5yr old son sleep in her room, which is a little weird to me, especially now that it happens everytime I sleep over. I’m worried she might be losing interest in me or maybe she is not attracted to me anymore or maybe there is something even bigger happening. What should I do?

[Ask April Masini]

There is a reason your girlfriend hasn’t wanted to have sex with you in five months. 😯 Do you have an idea what it is?

As for her using her son as a bed buddy, your girlfriend is doing a disservice to her five year old by suddenly bringing him into her bedroom to sleep with her — especially when you’re there. She’s not behaving in a way that is healthy for her son — or herself — or her relationship with you!

It’s time for you to let her know that this isn’t going to work for you any more. If she doesn’t want to make any changes, then it’s best for you to move on and find someone who’s got healthier attitudes about sex, blending a family, and parenting.

Let me know how things go for you. And please join me on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 🙂

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