[Anonymous]

BASICALLY ME AND THIS GIRL DATED FOR TWO YEARS BROKE UP WITH PROBLEMS OF CHEATING AND LIEING NOW ITS BEEN 2YEARS ALWAYS STILL TALKED BUT I WENT OFF TO NATIONAL GUARD CAME HOME WE ALWAYS BEEN FRIENDS NOW TRYN TO TALK AGAIN BUT SHE HAS CHANGED NOW SHE IS PARTY GOER AND HAS ATON OF FRIENDS GIRLS AND GUYS AND BASICALLY WANTS TO DO WHAT SHE WANTS WHEN SHE WANTS AND IM SUPPOSED TO TRUST HER BASICALLY WE HANG 24/7 MONDAY THROUGH FRIDAY THEN FRIDAY NIGHT OR SAT SHE WANTS GO TO PARTY OR CLUB AND DONT INVITE ME REALLY EVEN ON SUNDAY SOMETIMES NOW SHE WILL SPEND LIKE THE DAY WITH ME SOMETIMES BUT AS IN GOING OUT OR TO PARTYIES SHE JUST EXPECTS ME TO LET HER GO AND ME NEVER EXPECT TO WITH HER OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT IM TYPE OF GUY DOES THINGS TOGETHER IM NOT AFRAID TO TAKE HER OUT OR AROUND MY FRIENDS I INVITE HER EVERYWHERE BUT SHE HAS TURNED OPPOSITE.. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS?

[Ask April Masini]

I think you deserve more than you’re getting. She’s taking advantage of you — and you’re going along with it. Remember that nice guys do NOT finish first. In fact, they usually finish last. So don’t be so available to her during the week. In fact, only be available to her during the weekend. If she doesn’t want to see you during the weekend, knowing you’re “busy” 😉 during the week, then I think you’ll get a good idea of how much she does (or doesn’t) hold you close to her heart.

Since you two have a history with cheating and lying, unless she starts making you her weekend date, you may want to look for someone else to date.

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