[lovenlife143]

I have been with my boyfriend now for 9 months. Its supposed to be new and wonderful (so i thought). however, i notices that last month he kept dumping me every other weekend for absolutely no reason. then he would say sorry and come back and each time i let him back in as soon as he said sorry. i used to ask for my house keys back when he dumped me and he wouldnt give them to me b cuz he said he didnt want it to be over. but now its like he’s always looking for a reason to dump me. and he said that he is not happy since he is not working but i notice that every time he gets to have his way (going out real late, not return my calls and i dont complain) he smiles very hard and seems extremely happy. so if u ask me, its a lie that he’s not happy with his life. i think he just doesnt be happy when he doesnt get his way. b cuz when i let him have his way then he is happy again. also, recently he wont take pictures with me (simple pics like a quick cell phone pic) and he wont watch tv with me. and i asked him are we bringing in new years together and he got so mad at me he wanted to get off the phone. wtf did i do wrong? all i asked was r we bringing in new years together. to make matters worse, in 9 months we have NEVER been on not one single date. he said b cuz he didnt have nice clothes or just didnt want to go out. mind u he had a job from sep-late nov and STILL never took me out. in the past i told him he makes me feel like he doesnt wanna be together and i changed my phone number and he came to my house begging me to talk to him and i did. he was good for a couple days but then went right back to being mean to me. he doesnt answer the phone that much. and last night i took two buses in the freezing cold to go to his house to see him. and at midnight he got washed and dressed and said an old male friend was outside waiting for him to go to a bar or something and he doesnt know where they are going exactly but he is going. and just like that he left me in his house with his 2 kids and his mom while he went out past midnight with god knows who so i left! he texted me at 330am asking why did i leave. i didnt reply. this morning he texted me at 10:30am saying i left my headphones at his house. i didnt reply til just now and i told him he can keep the headphones cuz i wont be home tonight and he never texted me back. what should i do? b cuz i feel disrespected and played.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Clearly, this guy isn’t really interested in you. 😕 The real question is why you stay with a man who does this. That he hasn’t taken you on one date in nine months is one thing, but what’s harder to understand is why you’re still with him? 😯 This isn’t about him. It’s about you. 😳 It’s easy to blame him, but you are the one who has to take responsibility for your choices. You’ve wasted nine months or your life with someone who doesn’t really care about you. Clearly you should break up and move on.

You should also, immediately, buy and read Think & Date Like A Man: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you have a better understanding of how to date smart. 😉

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