[Kayleekayz240]

I met my first love when I was 13 we broke up when I was 15 because of me being stupid wanting to date other guys. About not quite two weeks ago I found an old cd he had given me (im 20 hes 21) I messaged him on facebook which led to texting. The problem is he has a girlfriend. He texts me all day even sometimes when hes with her. We flirt and chat nothing ever gets sexual. He texts me when he wakes up, throughout the day, and before he goes to bed. We hungout one time but talked and pecked once and hugged. Im at a loss here what do you think? He complains about her all the time too..

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Well, it sounds like he’s interested in you, but he’s taken. That said, he’s not married. Just make sure you don’t close off your other options and put all your eggs in a basket that’s not really there for you, if you know what I mean. After a certain amount of time, this talking and texting and e-mailing him all day long, while he’s dating someone else, isn’t going to be a good idea for you or him or his girlfriend. It’s fine for now, because it’s letting him know you’re out there and you’re interested, but if he’s not going to date you, you don’t want to turn into a third wheel and close off other real opportunities for yourself.

I hope that helps.

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