[username1]

so i need some advice on this girl that i like. Im really confused if she likes me or not.

She started messing around with me. (Throwing papers at me, throwing my binder on the ground, touching my hair sometimes)
Everytime i see her we both smile at each other and she says “heyy joshh!”
I decided to ask if she wanted to go to the movies with me over FB onr weekend. She didnt like the type i wanted to go see, but she suggested another one.
Next day she says my name and has a huge smile on her face. Her friend was like, “oooooooo” lol.
I know shes been talking to her friends about me also.
Anyways the movie day was good but didnt consider it as a date.
That same weekend i messed up and i think i rushed it which lead to her barely replying to my texts and she stopped saying “heyy joshh!” whenever we saw each other.
I tried fixing it by asking if she wanted to hang via text.but she didnt respond.
Over the summer i left her alone to calm things down.
When school was about to start back up i saw her in public, and she waved at me and had a big smile. i think she looked at me twice.
New year has begun and things are going decent. We had a few good convos via text. (I dont have any classes with her)
I asked if she wanted to go to an event, and she said “ill let you know”. Not sure if its a polite “no” or what. ( event is whole month and i heard shes going out of town for a couple of days)
Next day she messed with me again to get my attention.

Am i over thinkin this or what? I havnt officially asked her out and im wondering if i should just tell her i like her and ask her out, even though i texted her if she wanted to go to an event with me…

To me, she acts like she likes me but then she kinda doesnt. like she was ignoring me and now shes all fine. she never texts me first and never texted me over summer. She messes with me to get my attention. Is she waiting for me to ask her out in person. playing hard to get? Im confused. I pickup the smallest things and have doubts. like i noticed she texts me a smiley face only when i do it first. is she just being nice?

I need advice!!! I really like her, but one day i think she likes me, the other i think sge doesnt. also she never asks any questions about me.
Although she did say shes more of a calling/face to face type.

Its like shes into me, but then ignores me, but then gets my attention.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

My advice is to take this relationship off text and Facebook and into real life. There’s room for miscommunication in electronic technology — so ask her out in person. If she says no, or just doesn’t respond more than twice, then it’s time to move on. 😉

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[username1]

Well like i said i texted her asking if she wants to go to an event and she said “She’ll let me know” so like… I’m kind of asking her out twice lol, in a way. I don’t have any classes with her and i don’t feel like asking her out at lunch in front of her table making it awkward for me and her even if she does say yes. At the end of the day, should i text her to meet me by my car or in the parking lot so i can tell her? We barely talk tho, but whenever we do, she smiles and laughs and what not.

By what i said, do you think shes into me or not?

[justfriends14]

Tell her how you feel. I am going through a similar situation with the guy I like except he has stayed on the fence about his feelings, not saying he likes me but then again not rejecting me either. I would feel better if he just told me one way or the other. Let her know you like her & ask her out, make it clear as to what your intentions are. It is better to know than to wonder about what could’ve been. (either with her or someone else if she’s not into you)

[username1]

She already knows i like her, because i kinda told her in a way a while ago, although shes kind of oblivious sometimes lol, so she may of not got that… Still nobody answered my question… By the things i said, does she look like shes into me? Like the signs and what not.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The way to tell if a girl likes you romantically or not is to ask her out on a date, and if she says yes, she likes you enough to go out with you. If she doesn’t want to go out with you, then the answer is no.

Again, I really suggest you stop texting and start talking to her in person. I know it’s not as easy, but it’s a lot better because you get to see the person while you’re talking to them (and they can see you) and you can read each other’s body language and expressions — not just words. It may be a little harder to strategize how to talk to her, but I think you’ll find the results you get are better than what you’ve gotten so far. 😉

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