Just because you love someone doesn’t mean that they’re a good match for you as a boyfriend or even husband material. Love is a feeling that people get, but behavior is what dictates your life — in addition to feelings. Lots of people love folks who are not Mr. Right, and if you want to not waste your time, try to separate your feelings out from behavior. If he broke up with you, there must have been a good reason for his doing so, and I’m not sure what it is. Bottom line: Decide what you want for yourself, and since your ex seems to be out of the picture, as far as dating you, it’s best to cut ties and move on. Otherwise, you’re going to distract yourself with fantasies of being with him, when he broke up with you, and hasn’t asked you out again — he’s really not your Mr. Right, from what you’ve written. 😥 You may want him, but if he doesn’t want you, then it’s probably a good idea to just move on.
I hope that helps!
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