[justoneme]

I have dated this guy for 17 months. We spend almost every weekend together. I met his kids. I went to his family activities with him. He told me he was living with his sister and her children on the other side of town. I never went to her house. I found out June 20 that he’s actually living with a woman, and he has been living with her for six years. When I asked him, he admitted it. He has not been back to their house since. He went to a hotel and said he’s been trying to move for awhile, but they have just not been able to come to an easy agreement on how to split things.

Should I wait for him to get this resolved, or is he a double crosser, and I should just leave him alone?

Please help. We are good together, and I never would have guess he would have done this to me!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Seriously? 😯

He’s cheated on you for [b]the entire 17 months you’ve been dating him[/b]. He’s involved his children in this lie, teaching them that betrayal is okay and that this is the way to treat women (as well as men), and you’re even [i]considering[/i] continuing to date him? 😮 If that’s what you think “being good together” is, you’re probably a very easy mark for buying swampland and other scams. I know that deep down you know that you shouldn’t trust this guy and you shouldn’t be with him, and you’re writing me so I’ll tell you what you already know. 😉 This person has poor character. He’s lied to you about other things that you haven’t even figured out yet, and I guarantee you that he’s dated other women besides you at the same time. This is not your guy. Not by a long shot.

Get your sneakers on and run — don’t walk — out of his life, pronto!

And next time around, if you’ve dated a man for three months and has never seen his home once, move on. 😉

I hope that helps.

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[justoneme]

April,
You were so on target. It has taken me this long to get out of this situation. I discovered that not only was he living with another woman, he was seeing two other women besides me!!!!!

I had to change my phone numbers and have the receptionist not put his call through to me! It was hard, but I am getting over him.

I never would have imagine that I would be involved in such a relationship! I am not bitter, and I am getting to the point when I am open to trying a new relationship.

Thanks…

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome.

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