[angelacrk]

My boyfriend and I have been dating a year. Before the summer started he suggested talking a break because we would fight constantly and werent very happy. He said he wanted to find himself and what made him happy and see if he was miserable without me. So he suggested that the break be 3 weeks long. A day after the break started we saw eachother being miserable at the same party and he said he realized I made him happy so we called the break off and after that for two months we didn’t fight at all and it was the best it had been in months. So a few days ago us and all our friends and my sister went on a day trip. My sister and I got in an argument. we fight quite a bit. A few days later my boyfriend texts me and tells me I need to treat people better including him my sister and my mother. I treat him so well and would do anything for him so it’s not like I’m a bad gf. He also said he doesn’t know if we are meant for eachother and that I have no idea how to be social and he’s much more social and he keeps saying how he figured everything out because he went to some parties and talked to some people in college and decided he’s not going to care about anything anymore senior year and it’s up to me to fix this and I have untill the start of school to fix it or he’s going to leave me. All of this was out of no where. Many of his friends and mine hate him and they all say he doesn’t treat me well at all and with my mother and sister, we do fight but we know in the end we love eachother. Please help

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I would love to respond, but since you’ve already started a string of posts on this site, I’d appreciate if you would please re-post this new post as a “reply” to the string you’ve already started here: . I’ll look out for it and answer it when you repost. It’s much easier to give better advice when a person’s history is in one place. Thank you! 🙂

[Jake]

The simple truth is that this guy is not loving you, he is ordering you around. There are no “deadlines” in a relationship. He is putting you down in the heat of his college parties. Before he leaves you, you should kick him out and save your self-respect. A man who blackmails you over your relationship with your family can never be sincere to you.

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