[Angelic]

My husband had been with his ex-girlfriend on and off for six years. After a year my husband and I met. We got married after knowing each other for six months only. I loved him more than anything.

I’m the type of person who is innocent and naive. I always believe in the good of people.

After we got married while my husband was at work, I went through his FB. I found out he had contacted his ex wanting to get back with her. She told him that she didn’t want to.

After I found that out, I felt very insecure with my relationship with him. I thought to myself, “If she agreed to get back with him, I wouldn’t be here right now.” He still has old photos, drawings, poems, and stuff relating of his ex around in his room. Whenever I see anything relating to her, it just bothers me. We’ve been married for a year. Every once in a while, he still talks about her. I can honestly say I don’t trust my husband although we are having a child together.

What do I do? How do I get over this?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Let me know how old you both are, because that helps me advise you. 😉

That said, and based on what you have written, my advice is that you figure out what is missing in your marriage that caused your husband to look elsewhere for a relationship. Cheating doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Both people play a part in the dynamics of a marriage, so focus on what YOU can do to make the marriage a place he wants to remain and not stray from. 😉 When you feel that there is something you can do to make things better, you won’t feel so desperate or lost. 🙂 I hope that helps. Let me know how things go.

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