Hi there
So my girl and I have been together for 6 months and I feel like she’s quickly slipping away from me in the sense of attraction, and sexuality. The quality of our relationship has gone from amazing to complete crap in the last month or so. She used to be the girl that hooked up with whatever looked good and i changed that very easily when we first got together but recently I feel like I’ve been the boring nice guy that you’ve mentioned in other posts that I just read moments ago. And I have come to agree with the fact that I need to be busier. I’m very worried sometimes that shes gonna get stolen away from me by a man more exciting. And i cant just drop everything to be with her, I know i meed to have a life. Recently I feel like she is in control of all the sex. She just humps me a little bit whem we’re in bed to give me a signal and I’m all for it every time because I’m afraid I’ll lose her if i don’t do it. Amd whem we used to have sex I got whatever i wanted whem i wanted without asking, and now I have to ask for things like oral and even kissing, both which i sometimes dont get which i find sad. I know not every girl loves giving blowjobs but i just feel like she doesnt think im sexy anymore. I simply give her everything I got every time whether or not she asks for the things she likes I do them. Because I want her to be satisfied Even though I do sometimes fire a little early I clean right up and get right back in bed until she’s 100% satisfied. And I’m also beginning to feel insecure about other thinga too. I’m her bitch in a way. And it was my mistake to let it happen. I’ve pretty much been doing everything for her (outside of bed) even if she doesn’t ask. Cleaning out her car, helping her clean her room. Telling her…..bedtime stories…..shes,18! I just feel like my self worth is depleting and I want to show her what I’m worth and I’m willing to do whatever it takes. Please help!!!
