Opposites may attract, but it’s more likely that two people with more in common have an easier go of it in the long run. 😕 You’ve chosen someone who is your opposite, and now you want him to do things more your way. 😕 The question is, why now? It sounds, from your post, that none of this behavior is new. But at the two year mark, you’re tired of it.
I’m going to venture out on a limb here and tell you that it’s not the behavior that you’re sick of — it’s that at two years, the relationship hasn’t moved forward in the way you want it to, and you’re finding something else to complain about instead. 😕 Your job is to decide what you want in a relationship and then go for it. If this guy isn’t Mr. Right, then don’t waste your time. Instead of trying to change someone and make him into an entirely different person than he is (which will never work), focus on changing you and your own behavior.
If you want to be the girlfriend that gets the beautiful fresh roses and is taken out for dinner and lavished with attention — then be that person! You can’t attract that kind of man by spending time with someone who bringing you gas station, plastic flowers regularly. Your job is in front of you. 😉
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