[william1971]

[b]OK, so I broke up with my Ex-girlfriend about 4 months ago due to the fact that I didn’t feel like she cared enough in the relationship. I haven’t seen or have spoken to her since. For the past couple of weeks now I’ve been thinking about her. I don’t know what it is or why but I’ve been so sad because she’s not around.

I can’t explain it; it’s like all of the sudden these feelings came out of nowhere. I was fine for the first couple of months. Felt as though I made the right decision but now I’m thinking about her a lot. I’m not sure if it’s loneliness or what. I’ve been even thinking about calling her and seeing how she’s doing but I don’t know if that’s such a good idea. I don’t know if she’s dating someone or has a boyfriend. What should I do? Should I call her, if this stupid of me? Any advice would be appreciated….[/b]

[Ask April Masini]

You’re just lonely. This is very normal after a relationship break up, and if you didn’t feel lonely, you’d be a freak! 😆 However, calling your ex is not the right thing to do. Instead, get out there and start flirting with new women, and looking for Ms. Right. Use that loneliness for a positive and productive outcome. Make new friends, ask out new dates and start re-creating your life so that you’re not lonely, and you are repositioned in your social life to start dating again.

I hope that helps!

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