Unfortunately, you do know where he stands. You just don’t like it. His behavior is what you need to pay attention to. My advice is that if you want marriage and more children, and you’ve given this relationship a good amount of time to play out, you need to move on. He is not going to give you those things. Yo’ve been clear. He’s been, as well (if not direct). I think it’s time to move on and follow your dreams.