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Should I really try to get her back???

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    Smokedog1one
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    Hi, I’ve been broken up from my ex for 6 years now. We spent 4 years together before this happened. I realized after 6 years that I want to be with her for the rest of my life. We have a 6 year old together and she already had a child when I met her. I completely open up to her expressing my feelings to her. She agrees to meet me over dinner so we could talk.
    She tells me she’s in a relationship with another man that she thinks is serious. I tell her I don’t care I want her and my family back. She says I’ll have to work hard to get her back because she doesn’t believe I want her. She talks with me and tells me everything will be alright. I’m determined to show her what I say is true. She tells me days later he’s as determined as I am. What do I do? I want to give her the world but I can’t help but to feel played with because the other guy doesn’t know about our date and she is still seeing him like I’m not a factor.
    Am I a fool to continue to persue a relationship with her?

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    You’re not a fool to want to get her back, but it doesn’t sound like you’re focusing on doing just that. Instead, you’re realizing that you have competition, and that you may or may not win her over, and so because of that risk, you’re ready to throw in the towel. 😳 So decide if you really want her back, and if so, are you willing to compete for her? If you are, then it’s game on. But if you’re not, then you should realize that about yourself, and move on. There are lots of people who are so afraid of possible rejection that they never put themselves on the line for what they want. I think that if you really want her, you have to be willing to risk rejection, so that if you do lose out, you’ll know you tried. If you don’t even try because you fear possible rejection, you’re going to live with regrets — and bitterness. So be clear to yourself about what it is you want, and what you’re willing to do about it. 😉

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