[annon]

PLEASE HELP..my ex and i broke up 3 weeks ago after a 15 month relationship + 8 years of being best friends. i found it pretty tough but I stuck to the no contact rule for just over a week.. he then rang me randomly last night completely outof the blue and we spoke for hours just as if we were still together , finding out what eachother has been up to,joking around, flirty that kinda stuff.. and today he was texting me just the same.. and then an hour ago… he is in a relationship with someone else facebook official. i’m so heartbroken yet AGAIN i thought things were looking up.. then this happens. I just really want to know whats going on because i have no idea. i still love him so much even though i know i shouldn’t as he has hurt me so much. I dont know what to do.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Your ex has moved on before you have and because everything is going well for him, he sees no reason why the two of you can’t be friends, especially since you were friends prior to dating.

I know that you are not ready to throw in the towel because you miss the relationship and him, but what’s best for you is to move on altogether. Friendships with people of the opposite sex don’t work because one person always wants more than the other one, and this is [i]especially[/i] true for exes. So, although you were once friends, it’s time for you to move on and find some new friends. Let him go, and although you’ll feel the hurt of the break up, you won’t be confused.

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