[andrewk]

My girlfriend (hopefully my fiance in a few months) have been dating long distance for about two years now. One of us travels to see the other about once every three weekends. About seven months ago she allowed me to kiss her “down there” for the first time. It took a visit or two for me to get the hang of it, but I am now consistently able to give her two or three orgasms every time I visit, usually one each day I’m there.

This may seem like an odd question, but I’d like to ask the women out there for ideas on how to mix things up a bit. I don’t want her to become bored. I should specify that we have decided not to have sex until we are married, so that is out of the question.

I am asking for sexual answers to this question, because I already try to do something romantic (non-sexual) to surprise her and show her how much I love her all the time.

One of the things that I’ve already done is give her multiple full body massages that end in me pleasuring her. That’s the sort of idea that I’m looking for, something that will take some time and will show her that I’m interested in _her_ pleasure and find her incredibly beautiful and that she means very much to me.

Any ideas would be much appreciated, because I’m running out of them! Thanks in advance for any help that you can give me!

[Ask April Masini]

I wrote a book meant to spice up things in the bedroom, and you’ll get a lot out of it — as will your girlfriend! The book is called Romantic Date Ideas, and you can download it here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url].

Understand that a lot of foreplay for women has to do with setting the scene — especially as time goes on, the mechanics of sex are great, but for many people they can get boring after a year or two or three. That’s where this book helps you set the scene to seduce her without allowing your sex life to become boring, mundane or same old same old. Let me know how it works for you both! 😀

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