[Bob4409]

We are in our 50s, divorced & I’ve got a girlfriend who lives 40 miles away and she has an eX boyfriend who is stalking her. Every time I go up there or send something nice to her he finds it, begs & sobs her back & or intimidates her into going back to him again. I can’t be in 2 places @ once & she told me she was through with him before we started up, but he keeps pouncing on her & begging. Odd thing is she’s now mad @ me for sending flowers which he intercepted & yelled @ her for. What can I do, I really like her. In the past she bought everything & won’t let his meal ticket go ??? Help, Bob

[April Masini, your AskApril]

She’s a grown up. If he “intimidates” her into getting back together with him, she’s not ready for a relationship with you. 😳 If she wants your advice on how to make things better with him, offer to help her block her e-mails, phone and social media so he can’t make contact, and offer to drive her to the police station to ask how to get their help if she feels endangered. Otherwise, you’ve got a girlfriend who’s still interested in her ex. 😕

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