[crazed-driver]

At what point does showing a interest in someone stalking or even weird?

[Ask April Masini]

When you upset the other person with your come ons, you’re bordering on or are full on stalking and/or exhibiting weird behavior.

[crazed-driver]

Well my point was that today I was in work and one of the bosses in my workplace said can this colleague join you/do your job for 10 minites as it was part of their job interview. Anyway when as she was finishing I had to fill in a form, saying how good she was, etc. Well as I was doing that I happened to catch her full name. So if I added her on a social website, does that make me a stalker? The reason why I wanted to do this is because during the quiet spells when no one was around, we started talking about the job and the problems of it, etc as well as having a very brief banter towards another colleague and we were laughing, non stop. Plus she seemed friendly towards everyone which is a bonus. So here’s my question, if I added her on a site, would that be considered stalking/weird?

[Ask April Masini]

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[crazed-driver]

So is this weird/strange/considered as stalking and what about if you do it if you just know their name because everyone is so casual in the workplace? For example i mean a regular customer (so regular he sees all the staff in that area) adding them to facebook.

[Ask April Masini]

Simply adding a woman to your social website by inviting her to befriend you there is not stalking. She has a choice to friend you or not. Stalking usually involves multiple, regular unwanted advances. If she hasn’t turned you down then your advance is not necessarily unwanted. 😉

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